Weekend to Remember Military Marriage Getaways

Cru Military in partnership FamilyLife wants you to know they understand the added struggles of military life. Because they appreciate your service, they want military couples to attend at a discounted military rate. And at select getaway locations you will find an emphasis on military marriages with a special greeting on Friday evening, a project workbook especially written for military couples, and additional programs just for you.

Testimonies from couples who recently attended a Weekend to Remember with Military Focused Sessions:

“I didn’t know what to expect this weekend. However, I have fallen in love with my wife all over again, and I see how I can become the man she needs me to be. Thank you for a life-changing weekend in my marriage.” –Air Force E-7

“This is our 3rd Weekend to Remember Getaway . . . Having Cru Military here has made me feel comfortable in knowing that there are people who deeply care about marriages of our military families. The devotionals (received at past Getaways) are a resource we still use every day and love the conversations it has led us into. Conversations we wouldn’t have known to have otherwise.” —Army officer (17 years)

“Revolutionized my marriage! Profound impact by Cru Military! Loved the military emphasis!” —Army warrant officer (20 years)

Those of us who are believers in the value of the FamilyLife Weekend to Remember getaways can point to very definite reasons why every military couple should participate in this enriching opportunity:

  • Before Deployment: The Weekend to Remember provides a couple much-needed time away, without distractions, to focus on their marriage.
  • During Deployment: They have the opportunity to learn tools of communication which they will then apply during deployment so that they will “stay connected” even though miles apart.
  • After Deployment: Going to a Weekend to Remember upon return from a deployment provides the opportunity for a couple to encourage one another with “what we did right” and identify “what we could do better.” The latter is important because another deployment is often a part of the military life.

Tips for Planning Your Weekend Getaway

  • Plan early!
  • Call the hotel and ask them if they have offer a military discount. If the cost of the conference hotel is too much check around the area for another hotel which might not be as expensive (and don’t forget to ask for a military discount).
  • Ask a family member to come and take care of the kids (Grandma loves this). Alternately, ask a friend. Maybe you can keep their kids next time!
  • Try to arrive at the conference early enough to get checked-in at the hotel and relax for a bit before 7:00 on Friday night. The idea is to get out of your work mind-set and begin the transformation to a romantic weekend.
  • Read through our recommendations for a getaway.
  • Remember that people who attend retreats do not leave with enriched marriages, but people who attend retreats and make decisions to change leave with enriched marriages. It’s up to you!
  • Some people like to attend a retreat with friends and close to home. Others like to have time to themselves at a retreat further away. Either way is great!
Our prayer is that the Weekend to Remember would be an encouragement in your marriage.  Please give Cru Military feedback at MilitaryMinistry@CruMilitary.org on how this experience has been helpful for you.
If you would like to serve with us as a military volunteer at a local Weekend to Remember, please let us know at the aforementioned email.  We’d love to have you join our team!
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